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1. Pornography obscures the
sin of mistreating our neighbour.
Because all women are the "neighbours" of men
(and men of women), they should be treated respectfully;
not as objects for personal pleasure, if we are to "avoid
sexual immorality" (1 Thess. 4:3)
What are we to make of any medium that
portrays human bodies as mere objects? These `objects of
lust" are real people. To reduce them to body parts
and sexual performance tools dehumanizes them. Some would
argue that these images are not people, and therefore cannot
be violated. But can we so easily separate our treatment
of photographic images and people made in God's image? When
the biblical virtues of love, modesty; purity and chastity
are suppressed by lust, exhibitionism, decadence, and promiscuity,
all of these involved are hurt. If, before marriage, we
see each other only as sexual objects, how will we stop
doing so once married? What will happen in relationships
with people other than one's spouse?
2. Pornography
normalizes and invites sexual immorality.
In the digitally manipulated world of centrefolds, the human
body is smoothed to "perfection", defined in limited
(often surgically enhanced) shapes, and displayed in ways
that encourage fantasy "relationships." Premarital
intercourse, adultery, multiple-partner sex, homosexuality
and bi-sexuality are graphically displayed and promoted,
dulling the viewer's conscience. Many viewers says that
after indulging in pornography, they think of the opposite
sex almost exclusively in sexual terms, judging them physically
and fantasizing about sex acts. If we think promiscuously,
when will these thoughts lead to actions?
3. Pornography
that contains violence will stimulate aggressive behaviour.
Decades of research show that viewers of violent pornography
become more aggressive towards females who anger them. Many
viewers who could not imagine themselves stooping to sexual
violence find themselves gradually accepting what they watch,
and believing the participants deserve what they get. While
few viewers become sex criminals, many suffer loses in gentleness
and sensitivity, self-control and patience. In addition,
the consumer of pornography supports an industry that habitually
uses violence against those who pose.
4. Pornography
can injure fidelity and intimacy in marriage.
Several studies show that exposure to non-violent sexually
explicit materials results in higher expectations for sexual
activity, higher tolerance for deviant forms of sexual experience,
lower esteem for women rated as "average" in attractiveness,
and less satisfaction in the level of love for one's spouse.
Young people may falsely assume they are `getting sexual
experimentation out of their systems," When they actually
building patterns that can significantly hamper their future.
According to researcher Patrick Carnes,
pornography - viewing often becomes a habit, even an addiction.
What if one's spouse is deeply hurt by this focus on others
bodies? How can any relationship live up to a fantasy, since
by definition a fantasy is about one person exercising absolute
control? In many ways pornography challenges the marriage
covenant. Faithfulness includes the mind, a perspective
Jesus addressed when he observed that "anyone who looks
at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with
her in his heart" (Matt.5:28).
-Selected (Internet)
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